Married folks please answer!! desperately need advice?
I have been thinking lately to give up everything and just move in again with my hubby. He lives in Australia and currently I am here in USA. Almost 2 years ago I moved to Australia from US just to be with my hubby. He prefers Australia than US and I have the opposite view on this. I love US and it just feels like HOME which I never thought I would have to leave to any circumstances. Now here is the other part which always stops me leaving US. He's very unstable there, has over 80k bank loans ( the loans weren't for us, he took it before we got married for his parents and I didn't know until we got married ) also he didn't finish College yet and no he's not a teenager. He's a 30 years old man. He's also not physically fit have back pain issues which cause problems at work. If I go back my study will be hanged for few years. I am currently doing my Bachelor's degree on Nursing and will be finish with in 2 years. We are almost close to divorce cause of this issues we been facing for last 2 years. Both of us is tired and want a decision asap. It freaks me out to even think about getting a divorce but also in other hand it scares me what if I can't finish my study and get a better job to provide ourselves. I am just tired of all this and lately I am thinking about giving up everything and just go to him. And whatever is on fate will happen. I am still not sure if I should take the risk again because the first time I moved in with him we barely could afford the household expenses. And I had to come back to US to get my degree done. Please no rude comments. I am going through a very rough time. I will really appreciate all your input on this. Am I taking the right decision? Please give me some opinions.
Marriage & Divorce - 4 Answers
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If I'm not mistaken, you posted this same question not long ago, you are the one that his family and yours are all here in the United States. You received my responses as to his selfishness, thinking only about him. Be very careful, love is not about giving up what you treasure the most, but share that treasure with the one you love.
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why is he 30 and not married and stable? He is not going to move and if he is THAT old and unstable, that is a red flag, you should not have married him to begin with. Finish your education and tell him he has that much time to get established before you'll consider moving back.
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Dear Angel, I read everything you mention and if you put on a list the pros and cons between going to Australia or stay in US.....as you can see your list is big for the cons to go to Australia. As you mention staying in US you will have an education BA in nursing! Sounds like there is too much negativity by you leaving US, if he really loves you he can wait two more years until your done with your degree. That's what's marriage is for to support each other. It's selshish of your hiusband to put pressure on you and make you choose him or nothing! Wish you tge best of the luck to finish your degree!
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I know how you feel, my dear. If two people cannot work together on a problem, then that relationship is doomed. It takes TWO to work on problems. If your husband is not willing to consider your needs, or refuses to meet you halfway, or refuses to discuss the issues without continually defending himself, thinking he is right and you are wrong.......well then my dear, you do not have a marriage. It would be much better to keep your education goals in the forefront of your mind and heart, finish you education, and try to forget him. A man who will not work with his mate on issues, but always wants his own way, and refuses to change is selfish, and does not really love his wife. If he loved her he would be far different.
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Sunday, August 28, 2011
Sunday, August 14, 2011
Bachelors in Physical Therapy? Accepted in USA
Bachelors in Physical Therapy? Accepted in USA?
I am planning on studying Physical Therapy in the Philippines and then going to America to get a job. As far as I know, you need MASTERS degree to be a Physical Therapist in America. Does that affect students who graduate from the Philippines? Meaning, would it still be possible to get a license to work in America even if you only got a Bachelors degree.. In short, will my Bachelors degree be permitted license to work in America. Or would it be utterly useless? Someone Might mention "exam, test" etc. I was also wondering which ones would be necessary, aside from passing the board exam from the Philippines. What other exams are necessary for getting a license to work here as a Physical Therapist. (Links would help too please) I am going by guesses right now, since I know Nurses in the Philippines need to pass Board Exam, and then take CGFNS or NCLEX before they can work in America. Thank you all for your help and Knowledge. oh boy! so 5 years in the philippines to get a bachelors then I still need to take a masters for.. say 2 -3 more years?? whaaaaa!!!!!! I already have a bachelors in video game art and design from the USA
Higher Education (University +) - 1 Answers
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As long as you get your Masters in the USA you should be fine! : )
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I am planning on studying Physical Therapy in the Philippines and then going to America to get a job. As far as I know, you need MASTERS degree to be a Physical Therapist in America. Does that affect students who graduate from the Philippines? Meaning, would it still be possible to get a license to work in America even if you only got a Bachelors degree.. In short, will my Bachelors degree be permitted license to work in America. Or would it be utterly useless? Someone Might mention "exam, test" etc. I was also wondering which ones would be necessary, aside from passing the board exam from the Philippines. What other exams are necessary for getting a license to work here as a Physical Therapist. (Links would help too please) I am going by guesses right now, since I know Nurses in the Philippines need to pass Board Exam, and then take CGFNS or NCLEX before they can work in America. Thank you all for your help and Knowledge. oh boy! so 5 years in the philippines to get a bachelors then I still need to take a masters for.. say 2 -3 more years?? whaaaaa!!!!!! I already have a bachelors in video game art and design from the USA
Higher Education (University +) - 1 Answers
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As long as you get your Masters in the USA you should be fine! : )
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Sunday, August 7, 2011
Am getting deported from the U.S, what country is the best to live in
The USA does not want me here, i dont want to go back to my orginal country, am adventures and love to learn other languages and meet different people, i lived in the U.S for 10 years , i got a master degree in nursing, over stayed my visa applied to renew visa but USCIS declined, any countries where i can live happy and use my job? and maybe find a good wife and have kids am not really crazy about living in the U.S. , i really did not like it much, I want to go somewhere its peacefull, the U.S. imige is not so hot right now neather, sorry i dont sneak in, am 6.2 dark and handsome and all the ladies on me. I gusse ill apply to go to canada since they will accept me there because am a nurse.thanks guys!
Immigration - 7 Answers
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Canada has a particularly open immigration system. You might see if you qualify to immigrate in the Skilled Worker class. With your nursing degree, you could probably find a job to sponsor you. Canada has a huge diversity of languages and people. It could be very promising.
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return to your country of origin, this will allow you to use your skills to better your own country rather than imposing yourself on another country.
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Try Mexico. You would always sneak back in if you change your mind. The new hotspot is Canada, as that border is undefended
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Denmark happiest country in the world.
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you will NOT likely be permitted to live in any other country - they dont accept people who have already proven that they quite willing to break the rules. please do NOT apply to Canada. You will most likely be denied. what is it men and their ARROGANCE about being handsome? that scores NO points with any immigration dept,
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I personally think that you are really trying to say, is you have sucked off the USA all you can and then got you got caught being there illegally. Now you want to go suck off another country. Probably never worked a day in your life. And after all that, you bad mouth the country. Just goes to show what kind of sleaze ball you really are.
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Australia is the only western country which still has a growing economy at +0.4%¹, whereas all other western countries are hit much harder with the recession². Nursing jobs are advertised all over³. Plus, we have cool accents (though perhaps not as cool as British). You'll probably fit right in because I'm not sure if everyone here can spell, too.
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Immigration - 7 Answers
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Canada has a particularly open immigration system. You might see if you qualify to immigrate in the Skilled Worker class. With your nursing degree, you could probably find a job to sponsor you. Canada has a huge diversity of languages and people. It could be very promising.
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return to your country of origin, this will allow you to use your skills to better your own country rather than imposing yourself on another country.
3 :
Try Mexico. You would always sneak back in if you change your mind. The new hotspot is Canada, as that border is undefended
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Denmark happiest country in the world.
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you will NOT likely be permitted to live in any other country - they dont accept people who have already proven that they quite willing to break the rules. please do NOT apply to Canada. You will most likely be denied. what is it men and their ARROGANCE about being handsome? that scores NO points with any immigration dept,
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I personally think that you are really trying to say, is you have sucked off the USA all you can and then got you got caught being there illegally. Now you want to go suck off another country. Probably never worked a day in your life. And after all that, you bad mouth the country. Just goes to show what kind of sleaze ball you really are.
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Australia is the only western country which still has a growing economy at +0.4%¹, whereas all other western countries are hit much harder with the recession². Nursing jobs are advertised all over³. Plus, we have cool accents (though perhaps not as cool as British). You'll probably fit right in because I'm not sure if everyone here can spell, too.
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Monday, August 1, 2011
can i switch from fiancee visa to student visa
can i switch from fiancee visa to student visa?
i have a fiancee (k1) visa to USA but my fiance but we had a huge fight and decided not to push through with marriage. can i apply for student visa while in the US? i don't have any work but my mother is there with a green card and she can be my financial support. i had already graduated but i want to stay a little while to be with my mom and maybe i could enrol so i could have a student visa and be with her also? 1) would that be possible? 2)what are the things im supposed to do and how long would it take to process it? 3) what are the requirements? 4)do i have to go back home to process that or could i do that while im in the US? ...we'll be in california.. ...i graduated with a degree in nursing from the Philippines.. ..thank you very much for taking the time to read and answer! =)
Immigration - 2 Answers
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You have to leave. You can apply at a school as a foreign student but you would still have to leave and if approved you could then come back.
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leave apply if you then qualify reenter ,, most schools will require upfront student tuition's that can be in the thousands stay out of visa status (illegal ) and you will be deported with 10 yrs ban
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i have a fiancee (k1) visa to USA but my fiance but we had a huge fight and decided not to push through with marriage. can i apply for student visa while in the US? i don't have any work but my mother is there with a green card and she can be my financial support. i had already graduated but i want to stay a little while to be with my mom and maybe i could enrol so i could have a student visa and be with her also? 1) would that be possible? 2)what are the things im supposed to do and how long would it take to process it? 3) what are the requirements? 4)do i have to go back home to process that or could i do that while im in the US? ...we'll be in california.. ...i graduated with a degree in nursing from the Philippines.. ..thank you very much for taking the time to read and answer! =)
Immigration - 2 Answers
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You have to leave. You can apply at a school as a foreign student but you would still have to leave and if approved you could then come back.
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leave apply if you then qualify reenter ,, most schools will require upfront student tuition's that can be in the thousands stay out of visa status (illegal ) and you will be deported with 10 yrs ban
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